Don’t quarrel!

Quarrelling

If you do not ‘speed-read’  through Scripture, you will often encounter moments of humour or innuendo that catch your attention or leave you pondering.

One such example is found in Genesis 45, where Joseph sends his brothers back to Canaan after revealing his identity. This passage is intensely rich with emotion, spiritual insight, and profound lessons in grace. After a tearful and emotional reunion, Joseph says something unexpected to his brothers: “Do not quarrel on the way” (Genesis 45:24, ESV). I would love to have heard their conversation on the way home after such a remarkable encounter!

Unpacking the Deeper Meaning

On the surface, this seems almost trivial considering the magnitude of what has just occurred. The backdrop to the story is that Joseph, once sold into slavery by these very brothers, is now second only to Pharaoh in Egypt and has chosen to forgive them, offering life instead of vengeance. So, why does Joseph, in this moment of reconciliation and relief, feel it necessary to tell them not to argue on their journey home? As we ponder this scene, we uncover layers of human nature, divine grace, and the way God meets us in our frailties—there is no room for a blame culture, as we shall see.

At first glance, Joseph’s admonition might seem like the voice of wisdom and reason, aware that old wounds and buried resentments could easily resurface in the aftermath of their discovery. His brothers have just experienced an intense mix of fear, shame, and relief, with emotions running high. During their encounter, they must have felt the sting of their past sins, the heavy guilt of their betrayal, and perhaps even envy for the heights Joseph had attained despite their attempts to bring him down. They were all culpable, some more than others. As they prepared to return home with the incredible news that Joseph was alive and that the family was invited to dwell in the prosperity of Egypt, Joseph recognised the immense potential for discord.

Imagine the conversation that could have unfolded among the brothers as they left Egypt. Reuben might have forcefully reminded them that he alone had initially tried to rescue Joseph when they threw him into the pit (Genesis 37:21-22). Judah might also have felt defensive, knowing he was the one who suggested selling Joseph to the Ishmaelites (Genesis 37:26-27). The others might have been tempted to deflect blame or justify their actions. Amidst these swirling emotions, the temptation to argue, assign blame, and revisit old grievances would have been powerful. Perhaps it is with that in mind that Joseph’s words speak directly into this fragile moment, cutting through their old patterns of division: “Do not quarrel on the way.”

Grace Interrupting Old Patterns

This instruction from Joseph isn’t merely about avoiding petty disputes; it’s an invitation to move forward in unity. By telling them not to quarrel, Joseph subtly calls them to let go of the past, to forgive one another as he has forgiven them, and to focus on the grace they’ve been shown rather than their former failures. He’s also inviting them to walk in the new reality of reconciliation, not to drag the weight of old bitterness into the fresh start that God is offering them. While their intent was malicious and evil, God meant it for good. The reason they had food in that season was because God used their actions in the past—God was working in providential power despite their moral failings!

This same call echoes throughout Scripture, where grace urges us to step out of cycles of recrimination and into the freedom of forgiveness. Elsewhere, the disciples on the road to Emmaus in Luke 24 provide a compelling parallel. Like Joseph’s brothers, they too are on a journey marked by confusion, sorrow, and unmet expectations. They are consumed by grief and bewilderment, struggling to make sense of the events surrounding Jesus’ death. As they walk, they debate, trying to clarify their thoughts and emotions and process their shattered hopes (Luke 24:17). Their sorrow blinds them to the truth that Jesus is actually walking right alongside them. Just as Joseph’s brothers needed a new perspective, these disciples needed their eyes opened to the deeper reality of what God was doing.

Turning the lights on!

When Jesus appears to them, he doesn’t immediately reveal himself. Instead, he listens to their confusion and gently rebukes their slowness to believe all that the prophets had spoken (Luke 24:25-27). Yet, even in this rebuke, there is great grace. Rather than allowing their doubts and misunderstandings to push them further into despair, Jesus takes time to explain the Scriptures to them, unveiling how all of it pointed to the Messiah’s suffering and glory. Their journey transforms from one of confusion and discord to one of revelation and joy as their hearts burn within them at his words (Luke 24:32). The moment they recognise Jesus, the lights turn on—their perspective is entirely renewed, and they excitedly rush back to Jerusalem, no longer arguing or questioning, but eager to share the good news.

You might be wondering what the thread is that ties these two stories together. It is the way grace meets people in their journeys. Whether it’s Joseph’s brothers returning to Canaan or the disciples walking to Emmaus, the message is clear: grace not only forgives but also transforms. Grace doesn’t leave us wallowing in guilt or lost in confusion; it points us forward, inviting us to walk in the light of a new reality where past sins no longer define us and where misunderstandings are replaced by revelation.

A work in process…

Joseph’s statement, “Do not quarrel on the way,” can be seen as a call to live out the grace they’ve been given. Joseph could have easily chosen to use his power to condemn his brothers, to remind them of every wrong they had done, and to force them into a posture of lifelong penance. But instead, he freely forgives and offers them a new identity as honoured guests in Egypt. He offers them the chance to be defined not by their betrayal but by the mercy they have received. Yet for that new identity to fully take root, they must leave behind the patterns of blame and rivalry that have marked their family history. Joseph knows that embracing this grace requires more than just accepting forgiveness; it requires a transformation in the way they relate to one another. That’s key for us too—we’ve been changed and transformed, but it’s not an overnight process; it’s the work of the Spirit in our hearts and lives.

The disciples on the road to Emmaus experienced a similar shift. Their encounter with the risen Christ moved them from sorrow and confusion to clarity and joy. Once they understood who Jesus was and what his death and resurrection meant, their perspective changed. No longer were they consumed with doubt and argument; they were united in the message of the resurrection, eager to spread the good news to the other disciples. The grace they encountered in Christ reshaped their journey from one of defeat to one of purpose.

In both stories, grace calls us beyond the natural human tendency to fixate on our past failures or the failures of others. Whether it’s the blame-shifting and rivalry of Joseph’s brothers or the despair and confusion of the Emmaus disciples, the message is that grace interrupts these cycles and invites us into something new. The journey from guilt to grace, from confusion to revelation, is marked by the choice to leave behind the old ways of thinking and to step into the freedom that forgiveness brings.

The Call to Unity and Transformation

For us, Joseph’s admonition not to quarrel “on the way” is just as relevant. As Christians, we are all on a journey, walking out our faith together (and it’s never a personal thing!). Along the way, we encounter moments when old wounds resurface, when differences of opinion lead to division, and when the temptation to rehash past wrongs hinders our unity. In these moments, Joseph’s words remind us that grace is not just a one-time gift but an ongoing call to live differently. We are invited to move forward without letting the baggage of past hurts dictate our interactions. Just as Joseph’s brothers were called to journey home in unity, and just as the disciples were called to spread the good news in the unity of understanding, we too are called to walk in forgiveness and harmony, focusing on the grace we’ve been shown rather than the grievances we could hold onto.

The grace of God doesn’t just forgive; it restores relationships, brings clarity where there was once confusion, and unites where there was once division. Joseph’s forgiveness of his brothers is a picture of the extravagant grace that we see fully revealed in Christ. Jesus, like Joseph, had every right to condemn us for our sins, but instead, he chose to forgive and restore us. He doesn’t merely wipe the slate clean; he offers us a place in his family, giving us a future filled with hope. He doesn’t keep reminding us of our failures or shortcomings. As with Joseph’s brothers, embracing that grace that is extended to us requires us to let go of the old ways of thinking and relating. It calls us to resist the temptation to revisit old grievances or to let differences breed division. Instead, we are invited to walk together in the unity of the Spirit, keeping our eyes fixed on the greater story that God is writing.

Transformed by grace

In a world where arguments, divisions, and grudges are all too common, the call to “not quarrel on the way” is a refreshing reminder that grace has the power to reshape our journeys. It’s a brilliant message for the church—don’t argue on the way! When we focus on the grace we’ve received rather than on the wrongs we’ve endured or the mistakes we’ve made, we can walk in the kind of unity that reflects the heart of God. As we journey through life, it’s not enough to simply receive grace; we must also let that grace transform how we relate to one another and when we do, our journeys become testimonies of reconciliation and hope, pointing others to the transforming power of the grace we’ve found in Christ.

In this way, the stories of Joseph’s brothers and the Emmaus disciples converge. Both groups encountered grace that called them to move beyond past failures and current misunderstandings into a future marked by reconciliation and shared purpose.

The same grace calls us to live as people who are no longer defined by our mistakes or our conflicts but by the mercy and love that have been lavished upon us.

What about John the Baptist?

Recently, on Substack, I posed the question, “What about Agabus?” Continuing in this vein, I think it fitting to also ask, “What about John the Baptist?”

Jesus calls him the greatest prophet, yet we see him sending his own disciples to ask if Jesus was the One to come—or if they should seek another. As you read this, it should elicit a slight gasp. Something else that needs explaining is why, if Jesus is the Messiah, John didn’t send all of his followers to Jesus.

John the Baptist’s Role and Influence

John the Baptist stands as one of the most significant figures in the New Testament, acting as a bridge between the Old Covenant and the New. Filled with the Holy Spirit before hew was even born, his dynamic, voice-in-the-wilderness, camel-skin-wearing approach, reflecting Elijah’s ministry, was unique in its character and calling, and perhaps set the stage for the emergence of the prophetic ministry that blossomed after Pentecost.

John’s considerable influence invites a close examination of the hallmarks of his ministry, his relationship with Jesus, and the theological implications of his role.

His  ministry was marked by a profound sense of divine purpose and as a voice crying out in the wilderness; he was something of a solitary figure urgently calling Israel to repentance in preparation for the imminent coming of the Messiah. The central message was simple: “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand” (Matthew 3:2, ESV). This call to repentance was not just a moral exhortation but a radical demand for a complete reorientation of life towards God, anticipating the transformative message of Jesus. John’s baptism, accompanying repentance, was a powerful symbol of this new beginning, pointing towards the even greater baptism that Jesus would bring, one not merely with water but with the Holy Spirit and fire (Matthew 3:11). He was heralding an entirely radical and audacious new way of life; no one was exempt—the greatest One in history was about to be revealed to Israel.

The Impact of John on Prophetic Ministry

The influence of John the Baptist on the prophetic ministry that emerged after Pentecost is profound. His ministry can be seen as a precursor to the prophetic witness of the early Church, calling for a radical lifestyle of faith, love, and obedience. John embodied the prophetic tradition of Israel, standing in the line of figures like Elijah, whose spirit and power he was said to possess (Luke 1:17). Yet John’s role was not just to echo the prophets of old but to announce the at-hand arrival of the One who would fulfil all prophecy. That imminent arrival was days away, reflected by his lion-hearted call to the nation of Israel to repentance—not just to Israel, but also to the Romans and anyone else within earshot of his booming call of reckoning.

At Pentecost, it became evident that his proclamation of the coming Messiah set the stage for the outpouring of the Holy Spirit, which empowered the apostles and early Christians to prophesy, speak in tongues, and perform miracles, continuing the work that John had begun in a new and expanded form.

John’s Question and Its Implications

One of the most intriguing aspects of John’s ministry is the question of why, despite his profound conviction about Jesus’ identity, he sent his disciples to ask Jesus if He was indeed the One to come or if they should expect another (Luke 7:18-19). This question has puzzled theologians and believers alike. It could be argued that John’s question was not born of doubt but of a real desire to confirm that his understanding of the Messiah was correct, especially as he languished in prison, possibly wrestling with the contrast between his expectations of Jesus as Messiah and the unfolding reality of Jesus’ ministry. John wanted reassurance.

John’s expectations, like those of many in Israel, may have been shaped by the prophetic traditions that envisioned the Messiah as a triumphant figure who would bring about a dramatic, immediate transformation of Israel’s fortunes—pushing back Israel’s enemies. In stark contrast, Jesus’ ministry, marked by humility, compassion, and a focus on the marginalised, might not have fully aligned with the apocalyptic hopes that John and others harboured.

In sending his disciples to Jesus, John might well have been seeking confirmation that Jesus’ approach, though unexpected, was indeed the fulfilment of God’s plan. Alternatively, John’s question could have been a teaching tool, designed to direct his disciples to Jesus, allowing them to hear from Jesus Himself and, as a result, transition their loyalty from him to the Messiah. As a prophet, John knew that Jesus was the Messiah, and the accompanying signs (the dove and the voice) affirmed what had been revealed to him.

Lessons from John’s Ministry for Today

The lessons that can be drawn from John’s ministry for emergent prophetic ministries today are numerous. John’s humility is a profound model. Despite his popularity and the powerful nature of his ministry, John consistently pointed away from himself and towards Christ, declaring that he was not worthy even to untie the straps of Jesus’ sandals (John 1:27). This humility is crucial for contemporary prophetic ministries, which can sometimes be tempted by the allure of fame or influence. The true purpose of any prophetic ministry is not self-promotion but to bear witness to Christ and to prepare people’s hearts for His work.

John’s ministry was also characterised by a profound sense of urgency and a deep awareness of the nearness of God’s kingdom. This urgency did not translate into recklessness but into a powerful, clear, and uncompromising message. For modern prophetic ministries, there is a lesson here about the need for clarity and conviction in proclaiming God’s truth, even when it is countercultural or unpopular.

The Legacy of John the Baptist

John’s influence, ministry style, and calling were deeply rooted in his understanding of his role in God’s redemptive plan. He knew that he was “the voice of one crying out in the wilderness” (John 1:23), a forerunner preparing the way for the Lord. His simple lifestyle, his choice to minister in the wilderness, and his bold confrontation with the religious and political authorities of his day all underscored his role as a prophet in the mould of Elijah. Yet, unlike Elijah, who performed miracles and called down fire from heaven, John’s ministry was primarily one of proclamation. His calling was to be a herald, to announce the coming of the Messiah and to call people to repentance, thus preparing the way for the new covenant that Jesus would bring about.

Interestingly, John did not send all of his disciples to Jesus, which raises an intriguing point about the nature of his ministry. Bizarrely, some of his disciples remained with him even after they had encountered Jesus, as seen in the Gospel accounts – this might suggest that John understood his role as ongoing, even after Jesus’ ministry began?

John’s disciples might have continued to benefit from John’s guidance and teaching until they were fully ready to embrace Jesus’ ministry. Alternatively, it could indicate the difficulty that some of John’s followers had in transitioning from the old to the new, from the ministry of the forerunner to the ministry of the Messiah.

This transition from following a prophetic figure to embracing the fullness of the revelation in Christ is something of continued relevance for prophetic ministries today. It reminds us in ‘charismatic-land’ today that all prophetic activity should ultimately lead people to Christ, not to the prophet.

The assertion that John was the greatest of all the prophets, greater even than Isaiah, is rooted in Jesus’ own words: “I tell you, among those born of women none is greater than John” (Luke 7:28). This can be understood in several ways. John’s greatness lies in his unique role as the forerunner of the Messiah. While the other prophets pointed forward to a future salvation, John had the unparalleled privilege of directly announcing the arrival of that salvation in the person of Jesus Christ. His ministry marked the challenging culmination of the prophetic tradition and the dawn of a fresh, daybreak new era in God’s redemptive history.

John’s greatness can also be seen in his unwavering commitment to his calling, even in the face of immense personal cost. His denunciation of Herod’s marriage to Herodias ultimately led to his imprisonment and execution, yet he did not waver in his mission. John’s fearless proclamation of God’s truth, regardless of the consequences, sets a standard for prophetic ministry that resonates throughout history.

It is important to note that Jesus immediately follows His commendation of John with a remarkable statement: “Yet the one who is least in the kingdom of God is greater than he” (Luke 7:28). This indicates that while John was the greatest of the old covenant prophets, the new covenant, inaugurated by Jesus, ushers in an even greater reality. Those who belong to the kingdom of God, who have experienced the fullness of salvation through Christ and the indwelling of the Holy Spirit, are in a position that surpasses even that of John.

That is an amazing statement! This demonstrates the vast and transformative nature of the new covenant and the radical change that Pentecost brought about in the lives of believers—all as a free, undeserved, unmerited gift.

John’s influence is surely not limited to his own time but extends into the ongoing life of the Church and serves as a model for prophetic ministry today, demonstrating the importance of humility, clarity, and unwavering commitment to God’s truth. All prophetic ministry should point to Jesus, prepare people’s hearts to receive Him, and highlight the importance of understanding one’s role in God’s plan, recognising when to step back so that Christ may increase (John 3:30).

As the early Church looked back, John the Baptist’s impact on the early Christian community and the development of prophetic ministry after Pentecost was profound and encouraged the continued work of proclaiming the kingdom of God.

Ultimately, John’s greatness lies not in his own achievements but in his faithful fulfilment of the role God assigned him, preparing the way for the One who is the true light of the world.